We have seen the videos of military caskets being taken off a plane here in the States, met by the young widow and the soldier's family. We have wept along with them. Or stood at attention.
But have you ever wondered how the ceremony was handled at the other end of the final flight? Often the KIA would be the only 'cargo' on the plane. Here is how he got there (according to my recollections).
At the other end of his final trip home, troops
gathered and formed up to march nation by nation (my base housed several Coalition nations) across the tarmac to the open back of
the plane - in eight ranks, four facing the other four with enough space in
between them for the flag-draped casket to be carried to the empty waiting
plane.
Troops were then called to Parade Rest (someone, earlier, had even
aligned the propellers to each other so one blade of each prop was facing
upwards) and then Attention as the soldier is carried to the plane by his Battle Buddies. On the tarmac, a very brief but solemn ceremony and service are held by the chaplain. If it is a ceremony for a soldier from another country, the service may be quite long but the main US service is held in the base chapel.
Troops are strongly encouraged to attend as many Ramp Ceremonies as they can to pay their respects.
Some of my female troops had an emotionally difficult time and would stand in a rear rank to shield their feelings.
And Special Forces ceremonies were often in the middle of the night (US fatalities had to be out of theater within 72 hours.)
And now you know how carefully the soldier is treated at the other end of his final journey.